The Cup Between Us: What Forty Years of Friendship Taught Me About Showing Up
Father Michael Doyle still remembers the exact shade of gray the Pittsburgh sky turned the morning he met Tom Reilly. They were nineteen, both terrified, both pretending they weren't, standing in the courtyard of a seminary that smelled like floor wax and old stone. Neither of them knew yet that the next fifty years of their lives would be stitched together by something as small and unremarkable as showing up — again and again, on the good Sundays and the unbearable ones. This is a story about that kind of friendship. The kind that doesn't announce itself. The kind that just keeps appearing. Two Boys Who Didn't Choose Each Other Michael was loud. Tom was not. Michael wanted to argue about everything — predestination, Vatican II, whether the cafeteria's coffee counted as a mortal sin. Tom mostly listened, occasionally said one sentence that ended the argument, and went back to reading. By any reasonable measure, they shouldn't have become close. But somewhere in ...