How to Start Something When No One Believes in You
The year I decided to open my own woodworking shop; my father asked me exactly one question: "And who's going to pay you for that?" He didn't say it to be cruel. That's the part that took me years to understand. He said it the way a lot of parents say things — out of fear dressed up as practicality, love disguised as caution. But at twenty-six, standing in his garage in Ohio with a business plan I'd written on a legal pad and a heart full of certainty I couldn't yet back up with a single dollar, it didn't feel like love. It felt like doubt, wearing my father's face. He wasn't the only one. My then-girlfriend thought I was being reckless. My best friend from college, who'd taken the safe corporate path I'd once assumed I would too, told me — gently, but told me — that "hobby" and "career" were two different words for a reason. Even the loan officer at the bank, polite as she was, made it clear with her eyes before ...