The Secret of Viking Mothers
My grandmother Astrid kept a small brass compass in the pocket of her housecoat for as long as I can remember, and for just as long, I assumed it was decoration — the kind of quirky, old-world thing Scandinavian grandmothers in Minnesota just seemed to have lying around, next to the rosemaled bowls and the framed photo of a fjord none of us had ever actually visited. I was thirty-one the year I finally asked her about it, and only because my life had just come apart at every seam I thought was sewn tight. I'd lost my job in March. My engagement ended in May. By June, I was sleeping in my childhood bedroom in Duluth, staring at a ceiling I hadn't looked at in over a decade, feeling like a person with absolutely no idea which direction was forward. My grandmother, who noticed everything and said very little until she'd decided it mattered, found me on her porch one evening, sitting in the dark instead of turning on a light. "You look like a woman who's lost her b...