The Sound That Calls Us Home
There's a particular kind of quiet that settles over a house in late October, after the last bag of leaves has been dragged to the curb and the porch light starts coming on a little earlier each evening. It's the quiet of a year winding down. And it was in that quiet, three autumns ago, that I started thinking seriously about what we actually mean when we say the word home . I'd just moved back to Ohio after eleven years of city apartments — Chicago, then Denver, then a cramped two-bedroom in Austin that never quite felt like mine no matter how many plants I bought for it. My oldest friend, Marcus, picked me up from the airport in a truck that smelled like sawdust and old coffee, and on the drive back he said something I haven't been able to shake. "You know what I missed most about you being gone? Not the big stuff. The small stuff. The sound of your screen door." I laughed at him. He didn't laugh back. "I'm serious," he said. "The...