Life's Going Fast — And What Nobody Tells You About Real Friendship
We were twenty-three and bulletproof. Marcus, Danny, and I used to pile into Danny's beat-up Civic every Friday night and drive nowhere in particular — just to move, just to feel the city sliding past the windows, just to be young and together and certain that life was going to hold still long enough for us to figure it out. We made promises the way young people do — casually, like they cost nothing. We'll always do this. We'll always be close. No matter what happens. No matter what happens. Here's what happens: life. Marcus got a promotion in Atlanta. Danny got married, then divorced, then moved to Phoenix for reasons he explained in a text message that I read twice and still didn't fully understand. I stayed, changed jobs, changed apartments, changed in ways I couldn't always explain to myself let alone anyone else. The Friday drives stopped without any ceremony. There was no falling out, no fight, no dramatic goodbye. We just slowly stopped show...